LEARNING OF INDIVIDUAL DIFFERENCES

Every one can not be great but every one can be /must good and useful to himself and to the society . again every one can not be rich in material life and worldly achievements but he can be / must rich in himself with virtues and good life . there are individual differences and no one is like the other . see , one does not take interest in games , nor has the aptitude , may be very very introvert in nature and behaviour but he can grow as an eminent scientist , but on the other hand one is very poor at academics but good at games and sports and becomes a great player or sports man ; one again , weak at maths , excellent at Samskrit or drawings . this is to be found out .
There are numberless stories of great achievers who have been marked failures in other fields or subjects . i am not going to name them . i want to say that every person has , at least one specific good merit in himself , that needs to be trained ,nursed , nurtured and developed . this search can be done by parents ,if they are well educated and have the primary knowledge of educational psychology and if not they can take the help of well experienced teachers and psychologist available to them . generally , it is seen in our country , that guardians and parents want to send their wards to streams not matching with their aptitude and interests . this is the point where failure takes place and the individual goes to wrong track in his life and the loss caused by this small mismanagement goes a long way as a train sent to wrong track reaches to wrong destination .
Well grown students i. e. by intermediate can decide their own areas with the help of their competent /experienced teachers . they should not run after the crowed as a mad man . they should try to know themselves , their aptitudes and interests . the success lies in choice of right person with right potentials to right study -field / area and then finally to right place.
While going on life , therefore , one should be very careful of his mission that has been more or less decided by nature and if we can read the hints that shows the way of our destination . if the aptitude , present in you is properly read and trained accordingly , the maximum outcome of your person is mostly assured and you are a successful man . now your mission is full and this is a kind of liberation .