MAKING OF AN INDIVIDUAL

human life is very short and precious and if not properly developed against time ,one is left to regret . out of my own experience and learning , i would like to submit some points.
1 - Mostly people are busy in watching , others doing (vicarious player = imaginary player in the place of real payer) yes , you can enjoy any game or cinema or dance or any act of an artist for your entertainment for a while to make you fresh for your job or work . those whom you watch are making money and their career out of your unwisely wasting time . even the honey bee making honey and you are the only unbusy thing doing nothing . see and try to make your career . do some thing as of your ability and duty . think yourself , what are you doing ?
2 - do not waste your precious time in criticizing others . no one is perfect but every one has some / at least one quality , see that if of any use to you . yes ! if have some time ; i say find some time to see your short comings and try out means and ways to improve them . some English writer writes , - " do not kill your time by assassinating others character . this act of mean mentality weaken your own personalty . you have choice to praise any one you like .
3 - Fear to Gd or moral law or duty or your post or position or your dignity or any thing or person that you choose . only one to whom you have to be fearful , at least , and then be fearless in doing your business .
4 - Be aware where you are and what you are doing . attentively and with all your might keep your mind and body , where your you are working and what you are working . generally we are doing one thing and thinking of another thing . bodily in the class room and mentally at home , bodily at home and mentally in class room . walking then walk only ;talking then talk ; touching then feel it ; dealing then deal it . but this is not in practice , we are doing one , thinking other. this make you working fruitless , all your doings ending in undone . divided aim and sick hurry are the main causes of corruption and failure. this exercise is difficult , no doubt but easy after little practice and i recommend that this is great clue to learning and memory .
5 -Have much patience in making of career and personality . do not think of failures , make efforts as per your ability and circumstances available to you . take hardship as boon and go on with it , it makes stronger and gives power. if you are poor , have pride in it , if weak , try to grow strong . see ! you are not your choice on this earth , only help and cooperate and accept and try that you can . yours is a mission , let it be completed . no other will come to do it . have patience . your mission is exclusive .
6- Have good will for all and hate to none . who is your friend be faithful to him and love even he does not in certain circumstances . those who are not friendly to you try to befriend them , at least wish and pray and see , he will become your friend . have love and good will for all living creators .
7 - Have prayer every day and any time you find fit . be humble and help those whom you can and those needy . this is my firm belief that PRAYER can do all and any . the only power on earth is the power of prayer with wordless humility.