WHAT LORD KRISHNA SAYS .

In Gita the main question is किं कर्मं किं अकर्मम इति , कवयः अपि अत्र मोहिता । even wise are confused to decide the right action . Lord Krishna has given very clear way to solve the issue . He says , " you are not the doer " . you are the part of the whole . this Whole is an organism , living and great rather greatest organism . you are the part of this whole , very very small as a hair on the body but this hair has its root in the body and full conscious with what is going in or with body . ( this is an example . a hint to let you understand and imagine at the vast scale ) . this hair stands up in fear , the fear originates in the mind but all the limbs of the body come up to their desired readiness and expected action . this is the role of all the living and nonliving things in this universe or say creation . all the limbs have come up in their expected action and all are doers within one and not separately . this is what we are doing . Lord says ,- be with what is happening . be with , your abilities (really not your but what you share with the whole ). be with , what is expected from you . even if you do not want , you will be dragged into action . this world is not , "is" , it is " Being ". this world does not exist , it is existing , happening , moving and you are also moving and happening . Lord says , - happen with this , you can not say , -you will not . you are the part , not the whole but you have your role to play and none else in your own position as a nut in a machine to work .
Here there is no question of fate or action or Gods help . every thing is ok , going on and going on well , you are the part of this , "Going on ". if you say ,you take help of someone , that helps you is a part of that whole that you are too of . if you pray to GOD you pray to your WHOLE SELF and none else .
All that has been taught in Gita is to be STABLE in MIND (STITHI PRAGYA ) . let the plasure and pain come in your life , be with it , bear with it . do not dance in happiness nor lament in grief . be stable , face all that comes with your ability in particular circumstances . Lord himself does nothing and askes Arjun to do what is the demand of the situation . He says , - justice has been denied to you , Pandwas , and there is no way out to get your share , all the peaceful efforts faild , no alternative is being left , it does not suits you to go back from war as the last and the only alternative , so fight . those things have happened that had to happen in circumstances and I clearly see that war is inevitable . I see that Kaurwas are all dead because of their ill deeds . there is no way out Arjun ! so fight .
see ! you are not the doer . you are the part of the Whole . be with it , act and God is also with you , perhaps your mind , take its advice and act , you are not the doer . face what comes in , see the situation , take the decisions and go on with them with all that mental and physical ability you have and act in the position , you are put on and kept in . pray to God and act . you are not your choice .you are the choice of the WHOLE . be with IT and act. your mission is not a single one ,nor small ,your action is the action in harmoney with the WHOLE and the Universal Action . THE smallest ant and the atom ,elephant and the mountain and ocean all are not equal but equally important. therefore work incessantly , where you are.