LEARN TO BE EASY

This life is extraordinarily ironical and full of contradictions . one has to learn the technique of  to be - good and easy . one of these techniques is to adjust yourself with others in daily - life so that you and your counter-person feel happy .You can not change others but yourself (Well known theory) .
It is easier to be rough and rude to a person who abuses you and you also abuse him or advance to slap him . this is simple and very common- man- behavior that is mostly expected and executed in thousand or more cases. But this way of behaviour creates confrontation and some times very trifling matters may lead to a shoot-out and murder. Both the parties regret for the foolishness they have committed for nothing .
On the other way , in above said situation ;  you laugh at him who abused you or keep silent or unexpectedly thank him for his behavior or his words. the situation takes a turn and the abuser is defeated . Yes ! to act in this way is very  difficult - say ;  this simple way of action is complicated. For stance we find in the story told about Lord Bauddha who kept mum at an occasion when someone came to him and felt tired of abusing . Mahatma Gandhi used this style frequently and defeated English . . this simple way of behavior of Gandhi was regarded by English People as astute , shrewd sagacious and crafty ; earlier , till he was worldly accepted ''The Great Soul i.e. Mahatma  *
Tthis was one example . Human history is full of these great people and their great behavior and noble way of action and deed. this , we can follow and learn to be simple and easy .yes ! to be simple and easy is very very difficult and  to be hard and rough  and cruel and to behave in the same way as behaved is simple and easier. .this is like a machine that has no human touch .Animals and all other plants and living beings behave in the same simple and common way - called Reaction
  ** Keep in your mind ; to be easy and simple , is very difficult and to be rough is , easier and very common. let us try to learn to be easy .