RELATIONS VERSES MAN .

"रिश्ते हैं , रिश्तों का क्या ?" means , relations do not pure and can not always be trusted. Kansa jailed his sister and her husband and killed seven of her babies . the great Asohka killed all his brothers , said to be 100 in number.Allaluddin killed his kin Jalaluddin ; Aurangjeb put his father in jail. Dronacharya the meanest guru in history, emotionaly blackmailed Eklabya (not his real disciple). now! much of these relations . on the other side , Babar died for Humaun , his son in love to save him from his illness and the youngest son of Yayati gave his life-span in prime of his youth to his father. many sacrificed their lives for their nations and other causes justified ,without any praise or reward , numberless for honor and right spirit . homage to them all.
Now we see that the relations are not good or bad but men . those men who are good play their roles well wheresoever and whensoever they get to do with whomsoever. if the man is good , he maintains all his relations , say with parents ,with children , with friends and family , with neighbor ,society and at large as a good citizen with his country.
therefore the most useful effort and activity that we should take in our hand to make a perfect MAN. we are men no doubt but only in flesh and blood and need to grow men and men and men . men can grow up to good men then better men then the best and then to GODS. a man has the body of animal but Soul Divine . this Soul has to be developed to the heights without limit.
Great Urdu poet , Firaq says --- "ऐ आरजू है कि कोई अहले दिल नहीं मिलता । खुदा मिले तो मिले मगर आदमी नहीं मिलता ॥ "and what type of man hi wishes to be--see ! "आदमी तो हैं यहाँ बे हिसाबो बेशुमार , अगर किल्लत है तो आदमियत की । " In Bible , Jesus says , " Man you are the salt of the Earth and if you loose your taste with what, then , you will be made saline ? let all of us try to be a good man and if we can help others too , to be so .this is the great task that can be done through proper education and awareness and with love and humility.